Last night I was talking with a friend about dating.  “What would you want to do on a date?” he asked.  I’m in the middle of so many deadlines I had to purposely change my thinking channel from writing to dating… I know, that’s kind of odd since I write about dating. lol!

Anyway, I decided that an evening ocean cruise would be fun.  I told him that I have always loved the feel of sea-spray on my face and the wind in my hair.  Lately the closest I have come to sea-spray in my face or hair is driving on PCH with the top down on my car… on my way to visit my dad, but that’s pretty cool too.

As I was thinking of fun times, sailing or cruising through ocean waves, I saw a “Google Alert” on my computer!

I love Google Alerts.  They are usually alerts from businesses that have found my Cherries Over Quicksand books, columns, radio shows or the Love Bites YouTube television show  I co-host with Jon Hansen.

It’s like someone saying, “Hey we found you and we Like You… we really, really like you!”  (Hehe!! I love Sally Field.)

Last night’s “Google Alert” was for Cherries Over Quicksand on Lybrary.com.  I went to the link where I saw that Lybrary.com has my book featured and all set up to sell on their site to people all over the world in their different currencies!   Readers living in Italy, England, Spain, France… or wherever… will be able to buy my book and know exactly the price in their currency at this Lybrary.com site.

I was so happy that someone else (a stranger) had found my book and decided to promote it… Again.  To me, that’s as awesome as a boat ride in the ocean, it was a great night.

A note to writers:  This is what can happen as Author’s get their books and names out on social media.  You never know who will want to have you speak at their event… or Feature you in a magazine, newspaper, on television or the radio… or on their site to help readers actually Purchase your book!

Authoring is fun.  I hope I’m inspiring those of you out there with a book just ready to fly out of your keyboard and onto pages then off to a publisher or printer so your book is available to readers.  I know it’s not easy, but no more waiting… get started okay?

Oh… and this morning, I woke up to a fabulous poem (or song?) about the wind, texted to my phone, from my friend.  Now I’m thinking about that ocean cruise again… poo…  back to work! lol!

 

 

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Does it seem like… when one person in a group has jealousy issues and spying drama in their relationship the Green-Eyed Monster suspicions spread to surrounding couples like Vampires claiming more company? Jealousy is exhausting for the couple and all their friends listening to the stories, we hope this episode of Love Bites helps chase the monsters away to never bother happy loving couples again.

Everyone deserves trust, caring, mutual desires, gratitude and love in their romantic relationship. The list we share on this show for easily staying on the path to a non-jealous relationship is both comforting and sometimes embarrassing but I bet you all agree with the list after you listen to the show! I would love to read your comments. ;D

Extra: Please let us know what you think of the opening song “Energy” by Fire Tiger and their music video with singer Tiffany Alkouri at the end of the show… that lady has Energy! ;D

What is flirting? On this Love Bites we talk about how flirting is not all about physical attraction and sex, it is also about being interesting. Have you ever heard someone say, “The sex is great but he or she bores me” and wish their partner would just leave them alone or hides from their partner? It may seem like it would be difficult to stay continuously interesting or pleasantly mysterious in you partner’s eyes but on this Love Bites we talk about how to have the romance everyone deserves in their lives through Supercharged Flirting!

When I spoke with dating, engaged and married people about the subject’s their other-half talks about on the phone to keep the relationship romantic and spicy… I did need to use my Spanish dancer fan a few times but I received more funny or horrifyingly grotesque answers from people wishing their partner would be the hot person they dated in the beginning… so I had to include those answers too… heehe! And yes, Jon laughed and was a little confused at the strangely odd answers but we had fun on the show and ultimately we spelled out how to keep the passion in relationships through genuine continued flirting. I hope you enjoy the show here. ;D

Fun Trivia: Jon refers to Jennifer Cameron on the show, she is the mother of Jon’s four children and the love of his life looks like Marilyn Monroe, has an adorable laugh, their children are all under the age of ten and she also hosts the radio show “5 Alive”.

Love Bites with Rhonda and Jon: Dating with Romance and Humor

This is our first Love Bites show on-camera after we started our Love Bites radio show in February of 2012.  The set is not up on my side yet but that’s all right because the curiously blank background gives us all a really fast glimpse into Jon’s quick wit right off the bat.  Fun show!

Fun Trivia:  The call-in Love Bites radio show segment Jon references on this YouTube T.V. show produced a happy couple!  Yes, a man and a woman in two different cities in California called into our radio show about dating while raising children, afterwards they decided to meet and have been posting photos of the new couple at scenic designations like boating with super happy/romantic captions and comments.  And yesterday a photo of the couple in a beautiful park having fun with characters putting on a Fall show was posted!  Fun couple… we are very happy for them! ;D

So, dating… especially first dates, can be fun or just a funny story you might tell your grandkids one day but singles should decide to get out there and begin their romantic adventure… a wonderful he or she might walk into their path today.

Guys… yes I know women can be confusing and ladies…even confident guys can be shy too, but there are simple formulas for getting a great first date… and simple ways for her to let him know she wants him to ask her out.  We cover so much fun dating research here between laughter, that the newly dating might want to watch this twice before watching the next episode.  I just re-watched this show and was reminded about the Harley dates and the married ladies with their arms full of babies and groceries while her man is happily bouncing a basketball… those ladies now wish they had let him open their doors on dates so he knows from the beginning that she wants/expects and knows she deserves a gentleman… forever, just like he deserves the lady he wants and expects forever.

I’m not sure how this show moved into the body and mustache hair subject… but Jon wants to know if women like hair or not… how do I answer that? LOL!!   Well, I did and laughed pink-faced at the same time because, well… you’ll see if you have time to watch the show at this link here.  Don’t worry we keep it clean, PG… and smelling pretty! ;D

SHOW LINK: Building to the: I LOVE YOU & I LOVE YOU TOO response…Here on “Love Bites With Rhonda Ricardo” on The Jon Hansen Show

We went out the other night to celebrate the new show’s success with a great dinner and margaritas. Fiesta Time!!!  And of course… There were lots of singles out having a blast and talking about their latest wild, crazy and/or fun romances so I was in Heaven!! LOL!! ;D

It’s funny… when I go out to coffee, there are usually a few people talking about their relationships who will bring me and my friends into their fun conversations and we get to meet cool new people… but when I go out at night it seems like Romance is the topic on everyone’s mind in the place!  So many Romance Questions!! And of course I love it!! ;D

I’m posting the latest “Love Bites with Rhonda Ricardo” on The Jon Hansen Show here at a the LINK… but be ready for Jam-Packed information about How to know if he will say, “I love you” AND…How he will Know she is READY to say “I love you too”!

One of the many hints on this show segment is that lots of men have brought up how when they say, “You look beautiful” they get the response of…”No I don’t!” AH! LOL!!  Now… like some men… some women are just “shy or “bashful” in their own way… BUT men usually see this “No I don’t” response as childish and fishing for more compliments (and yes… some women are! But not me… hahah!! Ok me. JK! LOL!). (And some guys take this as a little warning that it could be the same response he’ll get if he says, “I Love You.”) All the men are hoping to hear after a compliment is a nice, “Thank you”… And if she says “Thank you” to his compliments… her kind response could be a great sign that she Does respond to his statements (with cool respectfulness… as Jon points out in the show)… And that she hears him and Believes him!

Romance has its fragile times… and the first “I love you” time is as sensitive as a soap bubble on a puppies nose.  So…with a simple response of “Thank you” to his compliments she is helping build a fabulous comfort level within the relationship… And staying out of that Quicksand! Ahhh!!  ;D

There are a whole lot more Romance tips at the show Link right under my picture above… and you can hit LIKE at the show site!… And you are welcome to listen more than once if you miss any of the points!!  So… please keep moving forward with a life of LOVE AND ROMANCE!  Thank you!!!… Also listen at the end for information about how to call into our new LIVE TV Show in a few days from all Around the World!!  I’m going to EARN that “Nobel Family, Love & Romance Peace Prize”! Even if I do keep adding words to the prize name! LOL!! ;D

LINK TO SHOW: “5 Minute Love Bite With Rhonda Ricardo” On the Jon Hansen Show. Taking a loving relationship break. Is it a good thing? …odd thing? …a sexy thing?

What kinds of actions have Super-Sexy Relationship Power while on a break?   …showing up later at the front door with your hair cut like your puppy or posting a video of you putting something smelly in their trunk?… hee hee!!! JK!  But there are lots of cool things you can do after a a disagreement to make your relationship stronger… but it is a confusing time… people in love but on a break with hurting hearts have been known to walk like baby ducks on a ski slope,  trip over parking blocks or walk into doors, ouch… as minds tend to wander… so be careful out there!! …and Awesome!  Can a break can be refreshing and energizing… and bring back Hot romance to your relationship?!… Please listen at the link and please leave a comment about the show or your views on taking a loving relationship break!  Thank you!  RhondaImage

LINK TO SHOW: “5 Minute Love Bites With Rhonda Ricardo” Taking the relationship to the next level? On the Jon Hansen Show

Is there a difference between him meeting HER parents and him wanting her to meet HIS parents? Will the parents compare you to the surgeon, bronco riding, astronaut, broadway musical star he or she brought home the last time? Ah! LOL!! ;DImage This is a fun show segment for anyone thinking about taking the relationship to the next level …toward possible marriage, family, kids… the pure joy of committing to the lifelong wild ride of romance with the right person! Does he like traveling and great foods? Does she like fast cars, great literature and giant cows? JK! LOL!! So, what hints have we learned about getting to the point of meeting each others families?… There are 5 full minutes of fun and sometimes hilarious hints shared here in this show segment… the rest along with real-life stories are in the next Cherries Over Quicksand… cool people in this chapter! ;D    

LINK TO SHOW: "5 Minute Love Bite With Rhonda Ricardo". How do you keep the romance hot even while apart? On the Jon Hansen Show

This is a fun chapter in the next Cherries Over Quicksand because I really had to do my romance research!  Men and women could not keep from laughing when they told me what they had imagined their hot man or woman doing when one of them had to travel alone… whether they were the one at home or traveling, their minds could create the most Fantastic images! (Were they literally “Dancing on rooftops” like me?! LOL!!)… And of course they would realize they were being ridicules… or were they? Please listen at the radio show LINK here and let me know what YOU think too!  I hope you love it and can use some of the romance hints shared on the show! ;D

(My new FB friend and fabulous singer/entertainer Ken Johnson put me on this building while I was dancing… wait… put this photo of me on the building… haha!!  You can hear his song “The Long Goodbye – Ken Johnson” on YouTube or see it my Rhonda Ricardo Facebook page.)

Show opening:

“Men and women agree that Touch keeps the Roar in romance, and ‘Good communication’ maintains relationship-Strength.  So what happens if you are in the type of romance you Thought you could have Only dreamt about, with an amazing person that Melts into your arms the moment they come through the door; but then something comes up and they have to travel… Without you?   Hmm?? …” -COQ  (The story continues on the “Love Bites” link to Jon Hanson’s Show above… my giggles and all..I couldn’t help it! Hee hee!! Please enjoy the show friends! And leave your comments too!)

LINK: 5 Minute Love Bites With Rhonda Ricardo. Will you marry me?

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“Will you marry me?”  When it the perfect timing to get the joy-filled “YES” that will lead to a wonderfully romantic married-life adventure together!  I conducted massive research on this question and received ULTRA honest feedback that people wanted me to share NOW… and I did… on the Show and in my next book!…. I’m writing two more chapters of the next Cherries Over Quicksand today AND Show Host Jon Hansen pre-recorded more 5 Minute Love Bites with Me here in California…. while he’s in Canada … and he stayed on the air at the end of the shows to add to the fun! Great day!!! I’m learning how to post these blogs with more componants and it’s asking for a quote so here I go: “Cherries Over Quicksand: Sharing ways to keep romance, passion and humor in relationships to help build strong and happy families” ;D

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